good and bad

I was sitting at the shop, while suddenly I had a thoughts and I just realized, having this business, (your own business) has impacted some part of my life so far. There are goods and bad impact from having your own business.

Good impacts:
-my life being more organized (wake up early in the morning, sleep before 12 o’clock)

-I can earn my own income now! And my current hobby now is to save, save and save!
And sometimes I’m being too pelit to spend my money hahha (u can ask my huby bout this)
And that’s not good! I don’t want being a mammon who loves money very much! No no no! (I know everything that I have is not mine, it’s HIM), so forgive me if sometimes im being too pelit! heheh

-my English & communication skill (with other people) are improved since I own this business.

- God process our (me & my hubby) communication through this business. Even though the process is not easy, we often had argue and everything’s, but hey this is what you called “process” and when God’s process you, it’s not easy man! Heheh what we need to do is always pray and surrender to Him, and it becomes so easy! :D

- I became an antisocial person, (well this can be either a good or a bad impact) the good side about this was Less gossiping! You know when you often meet ur girl friends, and have a chit chat here and there, usually 99% of them, either they do it on purposely or un purposely, they ended up talking about someone (sometimes a good one, but most of the time the bad one. (And that’s gurl! ahhah my suggestion is dont meet ur gurl frens too often! hihihi n get ur self busy)

I have a good tip for you, if you are the victim of gossiping! Just change your mindset.
Ada pepatah mengatakan “semakin tinggi pohon semakin kencang angin yang menerpanya”
If people gossiping about you, you have to be proud! That means you’re in the high position now! (Maybe they’re jealous with you, so they gossip about you) but, If people are not gossiping about you, maybe, you’re still in the same level, you didn’t improve anything yet. Hahah (I have this quote from one of our leader in church when he did the offering time), so instead of feel angry, “kesel, dendem” you can think of other way! :D

If You are a girl who likes to gossip about people, well i can only say, "bertobatlah kedatangan Allah sudah semakin dekat" ahuehaheuahe :D

Now, since i have this business I don’t have time to do (to think) that kind of things anymore, my life is peace now, far from hearing the gossips, (unless celeb gossips hahah I still read that everyday in my shop) , so yeah that’s one of a good impact for me for being “antisocial” person.

-Another good impact from having ur own business is u learn a lot of things (in business area) and I can also expand my creativity. (makin the shop more looks good, or changing it into café, coffee shop, etc2 anything! Any creativity that u have, u can express it through the shop.

Bad Impacts:
-I need to wake up early everyday! (err, is that a bad impact?) YES!! At least for me! Coz I really HATE to wake up in the morning! Im not a morning person!

- I dun have much time to see and socialize with my frens! The only day that I can socialize with them is on Sunday night! After church!

- I can’t have my holiday anytime I want! Huhuh

- I dun have much quality time with my huby ( I mean like watching dvd together, coz he often fell asleep while we’re watching, too tired)

Yeap, that’s the good things and bad things that impacted my life so far.
Anyway, I cut my hair today! Yeay! Coz my hair is too heavy now, it’s not really good when u curl it, so I re-styled my hair again today, make it thinner and more layers. It looks better!

ciaooo